Retrospection

The mind is the birthplace of philosopy of life. The mind often sets out on a journey undestined. The path is uncharted. The time is not stamped. Very often the past reawakens in the deserted corners of the mind. The triggering factor may be an event, a thought, an object or a person or ... who knows what? Retrospection is the privilege of a human mind. Probably in some moments of purposeful, intellectual retrospection, a philosophy of life begins to crystallize.

December 18, 2005

A PRECIOUS GIFT



God showered His choicest blessings onto us.

And you bloomed in our life!

What a precious gift of God!


Vividly recall the first glimpse of yours.

Existence as fresh as a dew-drop.

A little innocent face.

A captivating smile. The smile brightened our world.


How pleasant it was to grasp the softy hands!

Grasping those tiny hands, a bond was established.

A bond born of love unutterable.

Years have rolled by.

Kiddy face has grown mature. So have you.

But, by God'’s Grace, the bond is the same.


Moments of togetherness still spell the same warmth, the same love, the same happiness.

So, when we say "“Happy Birthday"”, the words echo the feelings inexpressible.


One knows not what's in store.

Tomorrow the world could be different. The worldly objects could be different.

The appearances, the shadows ..... everything may change.


The relationships may redefine their meanings.

Even utterances and silence may cease to bear meanings.


What will not lose meaning is the bond, the stratum underneath, wherefrom springs the love ineffable.



December 04, 2005

My Loving Father



Parenthood cannot be adequately defined in the absence of a loving father.


My father was a self-made man.
He hailed from a respectable family of moderate means.

At a young age, he shifted from a small place to the City to make a fortune.


He was kind and articulate; genuine and graceful. He could establish contacts with leading families in the city which helped him in shaping his life.
Achieved a fair degree of success.

He was a man of action. A real karma-yogi. A very hard-working man who knew little rest.


More than all that, he was an extraordinarily loving father.
He would keep the family closely knit with a blend of firmness and love. His firmness was devoid of harshness, certainly mingled with sweetness.

He loved us a lot, and with all his heart.


He was greatly influenced by the ideals of Montessori. He had absorbed those ideals into his heart. He would put them to practice in life. He would treat a child in such a way that even a mother would turn pale before him!


He would speak to us in a soft tone. Never would he use harsh words. Never would he hurt our self-respect.

We would eagerly await his return in the evening.

Everyday, his bag would have something for us.
No, it was not branded chocolates or fried chips or wafers. It could be some fresh, seasonal fruits or peanuts, or may be sweetmeat.

Whatever he would bring, we would share among us - among the little brothers and other family members.


He would happily watch us enjoying ourselves. There would be a sparkle in his eyes. A smile would adore his "fatherly" face.

A short spell of happy moments of togetherness.

Long enough to energize us for a wait till the next evening.


Those moments have mingled into past. He also left us for his eternal journey.

But the memories have not faded.

I bow to you, father!